Fifty years ago,
we wore bridal veils.
Walked past the elders’
with a cursory but loving nod.
Then family reunions,
joyful raucous gatherings
at the twenty
and thirty-something’s table.
Then babies appeared on hips,
high chairs crowded table seatings,
crayons joined forks and spoons
and the elders watched lovingly.
Too soon,
teenagers rolled their eyes,
talked about whatever they do,
made lists for Santa’s exchange.
Someone tried to reproduce
Auntie Maia’s meringue cookies.
Papa Milt’s son took over
his carving-the-turkey role.
Beloved faces,
grandparents,
uncles and aunts
disappeared from the scene.
And now, tomorrow,
we gather again,
a new generation
gracing a bridal veil.
And just for a moment I see their faces.
Generations
who instilled love of family,
no matter the distance or age.
Then quietly
we walk into the room,
smile knowingly and take our seats.
We now, are the elders’ table.