Children through the ages . . .

Parents, she thought, learned to survive touching their children less and less.
From Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng

These were precious moments ~

holding you upon my shoulder
napping with you upon my chest
holding you to my breast

lifting you back up to walk again
reading together, you sitting on my lap
skipping lessons, hand in hand

sharing hugs on grade school days
combing hair and straightening shirt
and wiping tears as you tumbled.

Now you have growing children
and as their independence grows,
touching them is lessening too for you.

But between you and me
at this stage in our lives,
hello and goodbye hugs
seemingly last a bit longer.

Perhaps because we know
time passing, means less time left
and we treasure more
these moments of staying in touch.


2 thoughts on “Children through the ages . . .

  1. Joyce Pittman October 29, 2019 / 12:35 pm

    Love this poem AND the photo. I’m curious who took the picture; kudos for composition!

    Liked by 1 person

    • lillian November 5, 2019 / 11:51 am

      We were with Abbey and Kevin in Vermont….hiking along a beautiful path in the VonTrapp resort. We walked ahead with Rika on the walk and they took the photo. It is one of my favorites.


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