Chrysalis like. Our arms, our home.
Enveloping, nurturing,
encouraging evolving independence.
Teaching skills. Helping. Watching.
Too soon the dividing line appeared,
between the now and what was coming.
Responsibilities increased. Yours not ours.
Your departures, more frequent,
measured at first in hours, not miles.
Your wings. Expected, prepared for.
We marveled and smiled. Waved at you . . .
and then you were gone.
Distance multiplied. Time stretched separations.
Hairline fractures of the heart,
smiling our love through goodbyes.
Parenting children to adulthood.
Learning to live through changing times,
adjusting to the moving margins.






Written for dVerse, the virtual pub for poets around the globe. Today Dora asks us to write about a poem that somehow talks about margins. She gives many examples of margins. As a septuagenarian with two happily married children and five grandchildren, I thought about living through moving margins as a parent and thus, this poem.








